Tuesday, April 03, 2007

In Anticipation of Arkansas



No, I'm not going to see an Arkansas game! But I am going to Arkansas. I leave Friday.

It was several weeks ago that ESF told me her father had cancer. It was so sudden and unexpected. I wanted to be with her then. Then another friend, MHW, lost her father. He was in his yard cutting limbs when one fell on him, and he died. I was in total shock. I didn't get to go to the funeral, but Buffalo Wings was nice enough to search around and get me a cheap flight over the long weekend. The decision was made pretty quickly and we bought the flight. BW and the girls will stay here; Banana and I will go for an extended weekend to Arkansas.

Banana and I will be spending most of our time with ESF; Saturday will be spent with MHW and other friends. I will get to see ESF's mom and will go see her dad probably Saturday morning. I'm excited about this trip. I really think that my friends and I will be able to be a healing balm to one another. This has been a difficult, confusing time for everyone, and being away from everyone has left me aching. I'm glad I get to bring Banana (he flies at no cost!), because he is a funny little guy and cheers everyone up.

Of course I'll spend Easter with Mamma and Daddy, my brother Crab Cakes and my nephew, French Fries. Crab Cakes also has a new girlfriend, Sugar Cookie! I can't wait to meet her. I'll miss seeing the girls in their new Easter outfits on Easter morning, dying Easter eggs and all those things, but we saved a couple hundred bucks and I got two extra days flying this weekend, so . . . I'll look forward to the many more Easter mornings in the future.

CBB - - - BBQ @ MHW's house Saturday! Can't wait to see you!!!!!

And while I'm in Arkansas, I plan on picking up some Razorback souveniers to bring back! Ahhh, to be back among friends and family in the land of milk and honey . . .

4 comments:

Court said...

M'S DAD DIED?! OMG!

I talked to her this morning. She confirmed the BBQ. Will you call me Sat and let me know when/what time/what to bring?

Crab Cakes - hahaha. funny name.

I can't wait to see you!

AKat said...

Oh, TT! I am so happy you get to go home for awhile!

Peanut said...

On Friday I'm flying to MN to visit with some girlfriends of mine who have also recently experienced some shocking and life-altering events. I absolutely agree with you about the healing balm of friendship. Have a great trip!
Too bad I don't have a funny little Banana to take along and make everyone laugh! :)

MMA Lady said...

You, too, Peanut. How wonderful that friends are really never far when you need them. I'm so glad you get to go.