Tuesday, November 04, 2008

Voting is Cool

My mom told me about her dad and his voting practices. He would say to my mom and grandma, "Ya'll need to go vote." Or, "Did ya'll vote yet?" Probably before or after work, over morning coffee or afternoon coffee. I don't know that it happened like that, but I'd like to think so. Pappa sipping his early morning coffee, before he was off to do whatever errand or job he had that day (he was a plumber). Before my mom was 23 and married to my dad. Grandma in the kitchen, frying some eggs and bacon.

"Ya'll be sure and go vote today," Pappa would say. Never demanding. Just reminding.

And never, my mother said, sharing his political views. Politics were a private issue for Pappa. Mamma said he never talked about them and never told anyone how they should vote.

I loved my Pappa. I always looked forward to seeing him. He died in 1996. He would be surprised, I think, by the way that politics has changed in just the short years since he passed.

Politics, anymore, is definitely NOT a private issue.

Not that it should be. I don't know. You share, I'll share, we can talk about it. But I wonder about Pappa's motives for not sharing. Was it that he was trusting enough of his friends and family to vote their heart, their conscience, and to vote for the right person, so far as they could figure, anyway? Or, could be, that he just didn't want to talk about it. I don't know. But that was his right. Talk about it or don't.

I'm not going to talk about politics. But what I am going to say is, how cool that we live in a place that allows us to vote as we choose. That allows us to vote AT ALL. Not only that, that allows us to stand around the polling area, or sit around in Sunday school or at work or at Wal-Mart or wherever, and discuss our vote. Even disagree with one another! Freely, openly. And when the man is elected, if we don't like him, we can say that! Out loud! Not all places in the world have this freedom.

I trust you to vote for the right guy, so far as you figure who would be the right guy. If we disagree, that's OK. I may not vote for the same guy, after all. But we can stand around somewhere and discuss it later.

5 comments:

Court said...

Voting IS cool, pal! And let me just say...I wish we lived close enough to stand around somewhere and talk about it. =)

I really love politics. It's exciting to me. I'm passionate about voting. I think everyone should register to vote and show up at all elections (regardless of who they vote for) because like you said...not all places offer that freedom. We are lucky and we should be PROUD to cast our vote.

Now, about discussing politics... I don't mind talking about politics at all. What I don't like is when people ask you who you voted for and then attack you for it. That's not right. We all have a right to our own opinion. Can't we all just get along? LOL.

Regardless of what happens tonight, I'm excited about being apart of this historic vote. If the person you DIDN'T vote for wins this election, the world will not end! We will survive. And if we want to, we have the right to BITCH about whoever wins B/C WE VOTED! WOOT!

sorry for the swear word. =)

MMA Lady said...

Right on, Sister!

I'm so with you on the NOT judging thing. Vote for who you want. I trust you to be a rational, reasonable adult. I trust you to make the best decision, as far as you understand all the issues and the kind of man you want for the job.

Like you said, we can DISCUSS. That does not mean we CONDEMN!

I'd love to throw back a couple and discuss with you. Sounds like fun times to me.

Boss said...

Voting is cool. I'll admit it was a little anticlimactic for me. Flip a switch, pull a lever, and it's all over.

Still, I'm glad I did it. And not just cause my guy (yours too, I see) won.

MMA Lady said...

Yes, mine was even less climactic. All I had to do was push a button! But, yeah, still glad I did it.

Court said...

What's this "flip a switch, pull a lever" and "push a button" stuff?! I had to fill out a paper ballot with a pencil! LOL. Is AR still backwoods, or what?!